What they DON'T tell you on prep groups!

This is a blog of the things we have learned as a new adoptive Mum and Dad to three children under the age of five. For 'Mum' you can read 'Dad' and 'parent'. It is also a record of some of the things no-one told us on the prep groups. Some of it is what children get up to in general and some of it is adoption-specific. Regardless, it should be an interesting read for any parent, prospective and adoptive. Feel free to add your comments, which I shall publish.
Showing posts with label food. Show all posts
Showing posts with label food. Show all posts

14 Feb 2011

Being an adoptive Mum is...

...having to buy multi-vitamins to help stem the tide of colds and illnesses because of the poor diet you are on, which can only oh so slowly be tweaked because otherwise the children would flip - or have nothing to eat!

8 Jan 2011

Being an adoptive Mum is...

...sighing that your children can never seem to finish off their mousses and so of course you have to finish off all three of them for them.  BUT YOU DON'T LIKE CHOCOLATE MOUSSE! ;)

4 Jan 2011

Being an adoptive Mum is...

 ...thinking that alphabetti spaghetti was a good idea, to get them interested in eating pasta, helping them to learn their letters and make the food exciting.  Of course then they pick out each individual letter and say "oh look mummy i just found an A" "oh look mummy i just found an R" "oh look mummy...."  Imagine that every few seconds times two children lol

1 Jan 2011

Being an adoptive Mum is...

...finally realising that the mealtime strategy that you have carefully honed with your oldest one over the last seven months will never work for middlie and you have got to start all over again.  Then you suddenly wonder whether either strategy will work for littlie or whether you have to start all over again all over again!

Being an adoptive Mum is...

...piling on the weight because you finish off what they don't eat

31 Dec 2010

Being an adoptive Mum is...

...putting on two stone through comfort eating

Being an adoptive Mum is...

...having a typical 30 minutes multi-tasking in the afternoon: keeping an eye on the children, refereeing squabbles, changing nappies, writing shopping lists, supervising loo trips, talking to social workers, confiscating toys - all whilst cooking the tea!

Being an adoptive Mum is...

...having to eat what they eat or cook five different meals three times a day!